
I just don’t know if I’m sporting old values or whether I need to readjust to new ones.
We moved back to Melbourne after 11 years living in the States. because of my husband’s job. The kids are now teenagers and readjusting to life back in Australia. They hadn’t seen their cousins for over 6 years and now they are all young adults. My husband and I have a total of 6 siblings all with similar aged children. When my husband and I grew up visiting cousins, it was such a fun time and we always looked forward to it. My issue is that while this is still the same as the current generation the difference is huge. I discovered they now have sex with one another if they are slightly attracted!!!
I’m shocked and I only found out because my son kept telling me his “cousin Kelsie is really hot.” When in a light-hearted manner I said to him simply, “she’s your cousin and you can’t go there” my son burst into laughter and said, “Bit late for that!” It turns out that my good-looking Romeo son has been with most of his reacquainted female cousins and my daughter has slept with one male cousin. Is this the new norm or are you all in shock as my husband and I have been? We don’t know if there is anything we should be doing about it? What happened in the time we were away?
LIZ, WINDSOR, VIC